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Strap-On FAQ

  1. Is it unusual for a man to want his wife or girlfriend to use a strap-on dildo on him?
  2. If a man enjoys having his girlfriend fuck him in the ass, does it mean he’s actually gay?
  3. If a guy enjoys being dominated in bed by a woman, does it mean he’s pussy-whipped?
  4. What’s the best strap-on for a woman to use on her boyfriend?
  5. What’s the best position for her to fuck him?
  6. Isn’t this really kinky?
  7. Where is the prostate gland and how do you stimulate it?
  8. What’s the best lube to use with a strap-on?
  9. Where’s the best place to get a strap-on?
  10. How can a single guy find a woman to use a strap-on dildo on him?
  1. Is it unusual for a man to want his wife or girlfriend to use a strap-on dildo on him?

  2. No, it’s not unusual, and it’s becoming increasingly common. It’s strange for men to fantasize about being anally penetrated by a woman wearing a strap-on, and many actually act on their desires. These days more and more men are becoming interested in anal pleasure and comfortable with the idea of letting their female partners take control in bed.

  3. If a man enjoys having his girlfriend fuck him in the ass, does it mean he’s actually gay?

  4. No, not at all. If a man is attracted to women, and enjoys having sex with a woman, no matter what kind of sex they’re having, it’s still heterosexual sex. On the other hand, if he’s fantasizing about getting fucked by a guy while his girlfriend is giving it to him, he may at least be bisexual.

  5. If a guy enjoys being dominated in bed by a woman, does it mean he’s pussy-whipped?

  6. Again, no. A couple’s relationship in the bedroom may or may not reflect their relationship outside of the bedroom. Some couples may reverse roles behind closed doors as a way of equalizing their relationship, and many take turns taking control in the bedroom.

  7. What’s the best strap-on for a woman to use on her boyfriend?

  8. When starting out, it’s best to choose a dildo on the smaller side, for comfort’s sake. Try something 6 inches or under, and move up if you need to. Choose a dildo that has a flange at the base that will secure it in a harness, and buy a sturdy harness with adjustable straps, preferably one of leather, vinyl, or strong material. The elastic harnesses that come attached to some dildos are weak and will stretch too easily.

  9. What’s the best position for a woman to fuck a man?

  10. The most comfortable position for anal sex is with the receiving partner laying on his back, with a pillow under the small of his back and his legs pulled up. His female partner enters him from on top, in a missionary-style position. However, many couples like having the man bend over or take it doggy-style because this is a more submissive posture.

  11. Isn’t this really kinky?

  12. Admittedly, most heterosexual couples probably don’t use a strap-on for sex. But it is not exceptionally “kinky” or unusual for a man to enjoy getting fucked in the ass by his girlfriend. There are plenty of things that are way kinkier.

  13. Where is the prostate gland and how do you stimulate it?

  14. The prostate gland is located between the wall of the rectum and the bladder, and is about the size of a walnut. It is the male equivalent of a woman’s G-spot, and stimulating it can greatly enhance the intensity of the man’s orgasm, and sometimes the force or quantity of his ejaculation. To stimulate the prostate, insert a finger or sex toy, such as a dildo or butt plug, 2 to 3 inches into the man’s rectum. Angle towards his belly button and exert pressure against the rectal wall on that side.

  15. What’s the best lube to use with a strap-on?

  16. Water-based lube is the best for use with a strap-on because it is compatible with all sex toy materials (silicone lubes will cause silicone toys to break down, while oil-based lubes will dissolve rubber). There are lubes that are formulated especially for anal penetration, which are heavier, stay in place better, and hold up to friction. If your partner is concerned about pain or discomfort, you can try a desensitizing lube like Anal-Eze. However, if your partner is relaxed and you are gentle, anal penetration shouldn’t hurt.

  17. Where’s the best place to get a strap-on?

  18. SexToyFun has a selection of quality strap-on dildos and harnesses to suit your needs. They also have great customer service and an unbeatable return policy in case you aren’t satisfied with your purchase.

  19. How can a single guy find a woman to use a strap-on dildo on him?

  20. Although hiring a professional dominatrix is always an option, there are many women out there who would be thrilled to reverse roles and take the part of the dominant partner in the sexual act. Your best bet to find them is to advertise in online personals or personal ads in alternative print publications, or try hooking up with them in online communities devoted to those with similar interests.